Does This Sound Familiar?
When you know the secrets on how to get a girls attention over text, it can be alot of fun for the both of you. But if you are here reading this, then I know where you’re at. You have some girls in your phone, facebook on even on online dating sites and going through your mind is the question of how to get a girls attention over text. You’ve thought out an awesome message to text to a girl that will win over her affection for you and she won’t be able to resist responding to you. You come up with a message that is a really nice, sweet message that compliments her on some level and a message that every other guy would more than likely send when texting girls.
As you prepare to send, you feel your heart starting to pound in your chest as you hit the send button to shoot the message off into the magic world of instant communication. You wait for the response…. and wait and wait. Seconds feel like hours. And the hours start to feel like days. As time is moving on, your excitment level is turning into frustration and confusion and you start questioning yourself, “Why won’t she respond?”
You can’t contain yourself, so you send another text to ask her if she got your last text message. And again… no response. Is she playing hard to get or what’s going on? Now your disappointed, frustrated and confused as to why she be nice back to you and respond after you were so nice to her in your message. Again you start questioning yourself about how to get a girls attention over text?
Why What You Are Doing Is Not Working
What you have to realise is you can’t use man logic to communicate with a woman’s emotions. You can’t go Texting girls like they are one of your male friends. The second thing to consider is that if she is a popular girl, especially among the boys, she will get tons of text messages a day. Just imagine what that is like for a second. Imagine that you were getting flooded with women text messaging you all day (read on because I’m going to show you how to have this). I’m saying like 50-100 text messages a day. Wouldn’t it get annoying? And secondly, if you were going to even reply, wouldn’t you only reply to the messages that get your attention?
Does that last sentence give you any ideas on how to get a girls attention over text? Are you starting to wonder how can you stand out and be the DIFFERENT message amongst everyone else? This is crucial! She is getting the SAME content in text messages from guys all day. You’re just another number. If she doesn’t have anyone pushing her emotional hot buttons with what they are communicating through their texts, she is going to settle for the guys who she considers good looking, or no one at all. Even if she does reply, it will just be a simple and minimal answer.
I’d like to mention here that you don’t have to be good looking in order to realise how to get a girls attention over text. I once received a text from a wrong number from a girl. I kept her texting back and forth for 2 days! She didn’t know what i looked like, but i knew how to communicate with her to keep her interested and keep her highly entertained for 2 days! More on this story here.
Why You Need To Change Your Text Messages To Women To Get Results
As i mentioned earlier, you won’t get through to her and getting her responding by using man logic. And compliments won’t work either. Again, if she is a popular girl, she will be getting these from everyone. She will be getting tired of hearing the same things over and over. Ever wondered why some attractive women can seem to be a bit arrogant? She is frustrated because she already knows that she is beautiful. You are stating the obvious to her. She is frustrated because she can’t find someone who can communicate with her on the “emotional” level that she wants or someone that knows how to get a girls attention over text.
Remember how i was saying you have to be different to stand out? Well this is a key reason why. If you are going to text message her exactly the same as every one else, you are just going to frustrate her even more. Why not be her “Knight in Shining Armour” and save her from her frustrations. Every girl dreams to be rescued by their prince charming, and this is the kind of rescuing she is wanting on an emotional level. After all, we don’t live in a society where we have to literally slay dragons. This is a metaphor or a tale to describe in story these emotional needs or desires of a woman.
I trust you are staying with me and are starting to realise the mistakes you have been making in regards to text messaging girls, and possibly your communication with them in general. So now you are more aware of the mistakes you have more than likely been making. Awareness of the things discussed above are 80% of the solution. Now you’re ready to start learning how to get a girls attention over text by communicating with her on the level that she desires.
SOME EXAMPLES of How To Get a Girls Attention Over Text
Watch the guys on this video talk about texting girls guru Matt Artisan and his ebook on texting girls. The ebook has over 160 Proven Text’s to get women addicted to messaging YOU! See under the video where I have lined up with Matt to allow me to give you some sample texts from his book and also his 1 hour audio on “Texting Women Secrets”.
(Warning: Video contains strong language)
Matt’s ebook has over 160 proven text messages in it that you can literally copy and paste and use right away. The best thing is that it gives you a frame work to use while you build up your confidence as you learn how to get a girls attention over text.
You can check it out for yourself here …